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Old 28-03-2004, 11:16 PM
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Originally posted from hftey
Well. I had work for others for the 6th year now and I do feel I need to do something different like own business. However I had attached to many things in my married life. So I have to take it slowly.. I can't risk leaving my day job for it. BTW.. may i know how old are you Sorix?
Things become more commitment if u don't feel to make a challenge.

I married age of 24, which I become sales manager aged of 22...then i decided to work along with company until the rest of my life but sometimes things really changes yr mind like:-

1) When u get older, company do not afford to pay u more, they will kick u out when yr age of 40 because u r no more aggresive than ppl, no doubt u hv alot of experience..( A younger mind is more creative and aggresive than yr old experience + they are cheaper than u )

2) U will limit yrself of doing work like 9-5 work and even when u work hard...it is not belong to u, is belong to the company..unless if u think u r worth to work hard with yr company and they threat u well...( 90% of company will c u work hard..if u don't u r finished...if u work hard, they will say WELL DONE...juz a two word, will make u happy?? without something u want?? )

Since i left the company since my aged of 26, and actually i'll make my wrong move because the moment i throw my resignation letter, my wife get pregnant......gosh and sigh..what am i gonna do!!!....is this my faith of my life? is this i hv to goin all through this?? all the negative has arise....

Since then, i don care what negative is blocking me, all i know when i hv one mouth with one pairs of hands and legs...i can own my family and business no matters what it takes.

For the first 3 months, I feel like am failing apart, no customers, no database, even if u do, u can't challenge with competitors and my own savings getting low and low till red. I have to borrow most of my frens, collegues and family money to struggle my business and i hv to find a way to live on it.

I hv 8 credit cards, 2 houses, 1 car and 1 new born baby, u do the maths...how can i survive with all tat without support????
My weight was 76Kg low down to 65Kg, I save all my breakfast and lunch juz to enough to feed my baby for foods and PAMPERS.

All this....is whether u r willing to fight back or retreat?? My decisions tooks me 1 week to think of and I FIGHT BACK...because I still hv my last dice which is when i really fail...i can sell my house and car and work under company back but THAT is my worst situtation....If i choose retreat...i feel am not embrasse to fail my biz but I feel that it is not worth to waste my effort and time which i choose to FIGHT since am still young...

If u r young, aggresive and positive....u must try and if u r not and if u r above 30s, then forget it...it is useless by the end of time.
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